Where is her self respect?

So I've been reading the autobiography of Faith Evans recently,  and one thought has come to mind while reading her account of her husband's affair with Lil Kim - didn't she have any respect for herself?

I don't understand how a woman can be content playing the role of 'side chick'. Don't you want a man that you can call your own? A man that you don't get little scraps of time with, who comes home to you at night? Someone that you're not just a 4am booty call to?

I know Lil Kim isn't the only woman happy to play this position but it's so pitiful, as a woman you should know you deserve better than to just be the number 2 woman in a man's life. And in her case, Lil Kim was the side chick to the wife (Faith Evans) AND the mistress (Tiffany AKA the rapper Charli Baltimore). She wasn't even number two, she was number THREE!

I will never understand women like this, is being with a man that important that you disgrace yourself and act like you have no morals? The women that knowingly do this shit don't even deserve the title of "woman"

I could never be that girl, happy to play the side chick.  I'm either number one and  the one and.only or nothing at all.

When a woman's fed up

Fed up

I don't understand why people are always trying to change each other to suit what they want. If someone didn't tick your boxes when you met them then clearly they weren't right for the job. Or if they've been a certain way since you met them why think they will change for you?

Most people are set in their ways and are reluctant to change and I don't blame them. But if you know you can't give me what I need and I cant give you what you want then why continue pretending?

BE REAL WITH YOURSELF. KBOW YOUR LIMITS AND ABILITIES.