So I've been reading the autobiography of Faith Evans recently, and one thought has come to mind while reading her account of her husband's affair with Lil Kim - didn't she have any respect for herself?
I don't understand how a woman can be content playing the role of 'side chick'. Don't you want a man that you can call your own? A man that you don't get little scraps of time with, who comes home to you at night? Someone that you're not just a 4am booty call to?
I know Lil Kim isn't the only woman happy to play this position but it's so pitiful, as a woman you should know you deserve better than to just be the number 2 woman in a man's life. And in her case, Lil Kim was the side chick to the wife (Faith Evans) AND the mistress (Tiffany AKA the rapper Charli Baltimore). She wasn't even number two, she was number THREE!
I will never understand women like this, is being with a man that important that you disgrace yourself and act like you have no morals? The women that knowingly do this shit don't even deserve the title of "woman"
I could never be that girl, happy to play the side chick. I'm either number one and the one and.only or nothing at all.
I agree with the post so much and I guess its down low self esteem and wanting to feel loved whether thats shared or not. I would much rather be alone than be unhappy as whitney Houston songs goes.
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